If you want to make yourself happy, trying making someone else happy. There's nothing quite as rewarding as seeing a parent, friend, child or complete stranger laugh and smile. Here are some simple ways to cheer someone up or brighten their day.
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- Give a heartfelt "thank you" to someone who deserves it. Whether it's a parent, teacher or friend, they may feel taken for granted if they do so much for you without any recognition. Offering a hug, card or even just saying the words will make them feel appreciated.
- Remember the little things. Let your girlfriend know that you're thinking of her with a quick email or tell a co-worker they're doing an awesome job by buying their morning coffee. Send friends cards to celebrate birthdays, anniversaries and the anniversary of the day you first met-they'll be thrilled that you remembered.
- Make them laugh. It sounds simple, but eliciting a smile with self-deprecating sense of humor, a goofy pratfall, silly song or a one-liner you heard on television can turn someone's bad mood around. Be an upbeat, positive person to be around.
- Listen intently and ask open-ended questions when someone's talking about their interests, goals or other passions. It's a joy when a person is truly supportive of you and fascinated by your interests.
- Uphold your end of the bargain, whether it's doing your chores without your mom telling you to, completing your part of a project when working as a group or remembering to pick something up on the way home from work. You'll make people happy if you're dependable and make their lives less stressful
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